virtual match

You come to Tinder in hope you're going to find someone - regardless what your intention is, someone to hook up with, someone to give you attention in a regularly daily basis, someone to be involved in a serious relationship with, or just simply nothing more than a fling.
At a side, dating app sounds like a solution for singles out there. Don't blame someone who install the app because we can't say that they are too socially passive to go to social events, parties, etc. Sometimes, people can be stuck in such a situation where there's nobody around their ages (and available to date), such as if you're an office worker. You work five days a week, get back home at around 5 (or even later), no involvement in social groups consisting big amount of people, and prefer spend weekends with family or closest friends. There are little chances to meet someone new.
So, you can't just hang up there and hearing the reproduction clock keeps ticking -
You just can't hang up there while deep down you crave for partner to share stories with -
You have to do something, get yourself someone new, and see how things go. And, dating app is like a turning on yellow bulb outside your brain.
A solution.
It does sound like a solution for dead-end street loneliness.

Not to mention how easy it is to create a profile and find people from different places. I found my self amazed to find out how some people with a good job, a good educational background, and a good face is single. Like, how many people in this world that have such qualities within themselves are single anyway? I don't know if they're really single or just actually bored from their current relationship. They feel like they're not even real (well, they do - it's just they have no existence in your world - well, perhaps not yet). Swap left and right for few times then you'll find one. Then it's your decision to approach them further, or just leave it there to find another matches.

I honestly admit how awkward it is to flirt with someone you barely know. Like, it's creepy - you don't even know them in real life. IRL, I found how some people could be

Coming to Tinder in hope to find someone cute to waste time with flirtatious texts - but, is that really what we need? Swapping photos left and right because you don't have someone to give you attention in daily basis when in fact, you need that. You miss having showering attentions - Friends don't count because no-they don't woo you the way those strangers might end up doing. But, is that what you want? Wooing with strangers you don't even meet in real life?

You could meet someone everyday for months and still not knowing them for 100 percent. There are still parts of them - secrets, traits, or habits - that surprise you and you need some time to deal with that. You could know someone for a long time and say things like you don't want to date them because you know how they are in person, like there are things about themselves that annoy you or do not meet your standards.
What about those strangers, then?
You'll be more surprised when you figure themselves out.
 More?
That means for strangers or acquaintances, we would still be surprised when we get closer, right? We can be friends with someone for such a long period of time and still not feeling anything special for them - just literally no sparks. It's just casual relationship between mates. But, then we bump into this one person and suddenly it feels different. It feels like 'voila' and it will be like every pessimistic perspectives about relationship and love completely disappear. You know 500 days of Summer, right? If I'm not mistaken, that's one of those movies you freaking love.
So, I guess, bumping into a random stranger on a social dating application is one of the way you meet your click? That you will just look at one picture, judging if they're cute enough for a sleepover on this Saturday, and deciding to swap them to send flirts - oh, I should've known just how lonely you are.